You want to spoil me?

You want to start our date with a little gift? We had an amazing date and you want to leave me with a little memory? Here are a few things that I like.

I love starting our date with a drink. This is what I like:

  • Dry white wine (I also like some good sweet wine)
  • Red wine
  • Brut and rosé champagne
  • Cremant
  • Prosecco, Lambrusco
  • Beer (yes, less glamorous but I really enjoy it when it comes from good breweries)
  • Kefir (it’s a great non-alcoholic option if we meet in the afternoon)

You can also gift me a bottle (of wine, champagne, etc.). It will be a gift that I’ll keep preciously to open during a special event.

Various presents

Make a donation for Griselidis

Griselidis is a sexworkers organization based in Toulouse. You can learn more about them HERE.

For the donation you can go HERE but you can also contact them directly to ask for their RIB or you can send a cheque to

Association Grisélidis, 10 chemin de Lapujade, 31200 Toulouse. If you live in France you can ask for a receipt to use as a tax deduction.

You can also give me cash for them during our date (I swear I will not be embezzling funds!)

Soap, shampoo, cream, etc. hotel samples

No, it’s not for me, but for Le camion douche which offer showers for homeless people.

I collect first soap, shampoo, creams samples (but, do not steal dozens of samples in housekeeping carts, I don’t want you to get into trouble with hotels)

Contribute to my moments of self-care and solo time

I regularly go on little dates with myself. I take myself for walks around Toulouse, rediscovering my city again and again, invite myself to lunch in places I love, and sometimes even treat myself to a night at a hotel. Yes, still in Toulouse! I believe we often forget to stay curious about the place we live in. Playing the tourist in my own city allows me to keep discovering it, while also creating a gentle bubble of calm within a daily life that can be quite busy (especially this year, with two training programs alongside everything else).

If you would like to contribute to my moments of self-care and solo time, here are a few ways to delight me:

  • A lunch, a brunch, or a beautiful night at my favorite place in Toulouse, Le Soclo
  • A wine tasting moment at 5Wine
  • A lunch or breakfast followed by a treatment at another place I truly love, La Cour des Consuls

Gift cards

Gift cards are seen as impersonal gifts but trust me, you can really please me for:

  • Feed me and quench my thirst

Fromagerie Xavier : https://xavier.fr/fr/Nos-Offres-Services/Bons-cadeaux/

La cave spirituelle https://www.cave-spirituelle.com/cheques-cadeaux.html

  • Bring some beauty into my apartment with seasonal flowers

Monsieur Marguerite https://www.monsieurmarguerite.com/carte-cadeau/8-carte-cadeau-monsieur-marguerite.html#/463-Montant_Carte_cadeau-100_/466-Format_carte_cadeau-A_imprimer

Bergamotte https://www.bergamotte.fr/carte-cadeau-fleurs

  • Help me to sleep well

With silk pyjamas and silk babydoll dresses https://www.glamuse.com/carte-cadeau-lingerie.html

With a nice silk pillowcase https://www.traditiondesvosges.com/fr/taie-oreiller/2484-taie-oreiller-soie-murier.html

  • Help me to relax so I can succeed in my studies

Bon massage https://www.zenementvotre.fr/offrir-une-carte-cadeau/

Books

I love when someone gifts me a book to discover a universe/an author he likes.

A notebook=> A mug !

I don’t need any more notebooks for the moment, I’ve received loads! They’re very beautiful, but I’m starting to run out of space on my bookshelves, so I’d rather stop my collection there. However, one gift I do like is mugs/cups, as I drink a lot of herbal tea. If you come across any nice ones during your travels or window shopping, think of me!

Lingerie

I love fine lingerie, and if, when we meet, you would like to see me wearing the set you once saw in a shop window, here are my measurements: 85 B and 38. I like the brands Intimissimi, Lise Charmel, Livy, Aubade, Honey Birdette, Studio Pia, etc.

I also like long negligees/kimonos and silk or satin pyjamas (for pyjamas, I prefer a size larger, as it’s more comfortable for sleeping). There’s nothing more pleasant to slip into after a hard day’s work! And to make my nights even more beautiful, I really like silk pillowcases (65 x 65 cm) and flat cotton gauze sheets.

Jewelry

I have nothing against jewellery, but I must admit that I have a huge preference for anything vintage. I don’t want to wear the latest fashionable Chanel bracelet, even if it cost you a fortune. On the other hand, if you visit antique jewellery shops, there’s very little chance you’ll disappoint me.

I love beautiful earrings! I like them both small (pearls, diamonds) and very large and dangling. If you want to give me jewellery, you’ll never disappoint me with that!

You are wealthy, really wealthy and you don’t know what to do with your millions? Let me help you with that problem!

If you really don’t know how to spend all that money, here is a list of things I want:

  • a little city house with a garden. My pets could enjoy the sun lying on the grass while I would try to take care of ancient roses
  • an English cottage or a manor
  • a place for Griselidis (bigger than the actual place)
  • a place nearby the ocean (in the Finistère in Bretagne)
  • a cute New Beetle
  • holidays (French Polynesia, Costa Rica, US, Bali, etc.)
  • A horse. Not something super expensive, a purebred from who knows where. No, a nice horse to go riding and cuddle with (just kidding, please don’t bring a horse to our meeting, I wouldn’t really know what to do with it).