You want to start our date with a little gift? We had an amazing date and you want to leave me with a little memory? Here are a few things that I like.
I love starting our date with a drink. This is what I like:
- Dry white wine (I also like some good sweet wine)
- Red wine
- Brut and rosé champagne
- Cremant
- Prosecco, Lambrusco
- Beer (yes, less glamorous but I really enjoy it when it comes from good breweries)
- Kefir (it’s a great non-alcoholic option if we meet in the afternoon)
You can also gift me a bottle (of wine, champagne, etc.). It will be a gift that I’ll keep preciously to open during a special event.
Various presents
- I would love a subscription at these magazines “Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy“
- Books about sexwork : Sex Work Matters, Essential Clinical Care for Sex Workers: A Sex-Positive Handbook for Mental Health Practitioners, A Whore’s Manifesto: An Anthology of Writing and Artwork by Sex Workers, Revolting Prostitutes: The Fight for Sex Workers’ Rights, The Ethical Stripper: Sex, Work and Labour Rights in the Night-time Economy, Mothers, Mothering and Sex Work (English Edition), Prostitution et SIDA, Working It: Sex Workers on the Work of Sex, Promomme: A sex worker’s guide to parenting, Travailler, lutter, diffuser, Archives militantes luttes TDS
- Books about sexuality : Réinventer sa vie intime après bébé, Désirer à tout prix, Sex Talk, Smart Sex: How to boost your sex IQ, The Erotic Mind, L’Incroyable histoire du sexe intégrale, Vivre une sexualité épanouie grâce à la méditation de pleine
- Since I like to overload my schedule, between my studies and my various vet appointments, I decided to take wine tasting classes this year. Nothing professional, but from time to time, for a few hours, I like to explore this world so that I can speak a little better the language of my favourite people in restaurants: sommeliers (okay, there’s also the chef, of course, but it’s really neck and neck in my heart). So first of all, if you want to go to wine tastings with me, I’d be delighted, and secondly, I wouldn’t say no to a wine aroma kit (like this one) to refine my nose a little (and a VacuVin-style stopper).
- And there is also my wishlist
Make a donation for Griselidis

Griselidis is a sexworkers organization based in Toulouse. You can learn more about them HERE.
For the donation you can go HERE but you can also contact them directly to ask for their RIB or you can send a cheque to
Association Grisélidis, 10 chemin de Lapujade, 31200 Toulouse. If you live in France you can ask for a receipt to use as a tax deduction.
You can also give me cash for them during our date (I swear I will not be embezzling funds!)
Soap, shampoo, cream, etc. hotel samples
No, it’s not for me, but for Le camion douche which offer showers for homeless people.
I collect first soap, shampoo, creams samples (but, do not steal dozens of samples in housekeeping carts, I don’t want you to get into trouble with hotels)
Gift cards
Gift cards are seen as impersonal gifts but trust me, you can really please me for:
- Feed me and quench my thirst
Fromagerie Xavier : https://xavier.fr/fr/Nos-Offres-Services/Bons-cadeaux/
La cave spirituelle https://www.cave-spirituelle.com/cheques-cadeaux.html
- Bring some beauty into my apartment with seasonal flowers
Monsieur Marguerite https://www.monsieurmarguerite.com/carte-cadeau/8-carte-cadeau-monsieur-marguerite.html#/463-Montant_Carte_cadeau-100_/466-Format_carte_cadeau-A_imprimer
Bergamotte https://www.bergamotte.fr/carte-cadeau-fleurs
- Help me to sleep well
With silk pyjamas and silk babydoll dresses https://www.glamuse.com/carte-cadeau-lingerie.html
With a nice silk pillowcase https://www.traditiondesvosges.com/fr/taie-oreiller/2484-taie-oreiller-soie-murier.html
- Help me to relax so I can succeed in my studies
Bon massage https://www.zenementvotre.fr/offrir-une-carte-cadeau/
Books
I love when someone gifts me a book to discover a universe/an author he likes.
A notebook=> A mug !

I don’t need any more notebooks for the moment, I’ve received loads! They’re very beautiful, but I’m starting to run out of space on my bookshelves, so I’d rather stop my collection there. However, one gift I do like is mugs/cups, as I drink a lot of herbal tea. If you come across any nice ones during your travels or window shopping, think of me!
Lingerie
I love fine lingerie, and if, when we meet, you would like to see me wearing the set you once saw in a shop window, here are my measurements: 85 B and 38. I like the brands Intimissimi, Lise Charmel, Livy, Aubade, Honey Birdette, Studio Pia, etc.
I also like long negligees/kimonos and silk or satin pyjamas (for pyjamas, I prefer a size larger, as it’s more comfortable for sleeping). There’s nothing more pleasant to slip into after a hard day’s work! And to make my nights even more beautiful, I really like silk pillowcases (65 x 65 cm) and flat cotton gauze sheets.
Jewelry
I have nothing against jewellery, but I must admit that I have a huge preference for anything vintage. I don’t want to wear the latest fashionable Chanel bracelet, even if it cost you a fortune. On the other hand, if you visit antique jewellery shops, there’s very little chance you’ll disappoint me.
I love beautiful earrings! I like them both small (pearls, diamonds) and very large and dangling. If you want to give me jewellery, you’ll never disappoint me with that!
You are wealthy, really wealthy and you don’t know what to do with your millions? Let me help you with that problem!
If you really don’t know how to spend all that money, here is a list of things I want:
- a little city house with a garden. My pets could enjoy the sun lying on the grass while I would try to take care of ancient roses
- an English cottage or a manor
- a place for Griselidis (bigger than the actual place)
- a place nearby the ocean (in the Finistère in Bretagne)
- a cute New Beetle
- holidays (French Polynesia, Costa Rica, US, Bali, etc.)
- A horse. Not something super expensive, a purebred from who knows where. No, a nice horse to go riding and cuddle with (just kidding, please don’t bring a horse to our meeting, I wouldn’t really know what to do with it).
