IMPORTANT: Normally, I am not accepting new lovers this year (I am making an exception for people with degenerative conditions and those who have no sexual experience and are experiencing blockages). But if you are an English speaker comfortable with French, I am not opposed to receiving a few private English lessons! As mentioned below, if you are not concerned with issues that are hindering your sex life, and you just want to meet me for a good time, this is possible for meetings of at least 4 hours.
Next availabilities: Starting January 6th
Academic year 2025–2026: Here’s a preliminary schedule. I might take a break in May to finish my first thesis (I haven’t decided yet, because that’s usually when some people like to invite me on short getaways and I don’t want to miss out on that… BUT I’ve already tried the “Of course I can go to Guadeloupe right before my exams, I’ll study a bit over there, it’ll be fine!” approach and let’s just say that between the rum and swimming with the fish, my notes stayed safe and untouched in my bag… So maybe I won’t repeat that experience with a thesis and finals coming up).
Paris: It’s possible that I’ll come earlier or stay after my classes if you’d like to see me for an evening, a night, or 24 hours (from Wednesday noon to Thursday noon, and from Saturday 7 p.m. to Sunday evening).
I’m never available on Mondays, except for overnight stays or longer meetings.
Blue: completely unavailable.
Green: unavailable except for overnight stays or longer, depending on my schedule.
Yellow: available for an evening, overnight stay, or 24 hours in Paris.
Short dates (2-3h) and meetings without intimacy: I open my schedule 1 month in advance (for a date in May, it will be possible to book from 1 April 1st). However, if you have in mind a schedule over several periods (one meeting per month, one meeting every 15 days) it is possible to discuss this and plan everything in advance.
Lunch/Diner date (4h and +): I open my schedule 2 months in advance.
Long dates (8h and +, nights, week-end…): As these meetings often require special bookings (restaurant, hotel, train/plane tickets, etc.) we can plan for this a long time in advance
I’d like to remind you that I give priority to people facing the following difficulties:
- Little or no experience (these requests are prioritized in my schedule because I really enjoy this type of support)
- Grief or a difficult breakup that has led to emotional blocks or fears, especially in relationships
- Depression (particularly when medication affects sexuality)
- Illness or disability
- Sexual difficulties and lack of self-confidence (especially if this prevents you from starting new relationships or reaching out to others)
If you recognize yourself in one or more of these situations, please send me a detailed email explaining your circumstances and what you’re looking for, so I can see if it fits with what I offer.
If you’re uncomfortable writing about this in an email, we can meet for a drink to talk about it but please don’t ask for a “between-the-sheets” meeting while saying “Yes, yes, I fit your criteria, we’ll talk about it on the day.” I really need to know your situation before in order to see whether or not I am able to meet with you.
If you are not concerned by any of the situations mentioned above, it’s still possible to meet me but only if your email and expectations align with mine, and only for meetings lasting at least 4 hours.
How can you make an appointment with me?
- Write me a nice email that makes me look forward to meeting you.
I really enjoy when men introduce themselves from the first email. Of course your name, your age and your hobbies can be important to know you a little more but I need you to explain to me what your wishes and your desires are so I can see if we are a match. I prefer long emails that explain who you are, what you are looking for, why you’ve chosen me, etc. so don’t be afraid. Talk to me about everything you want. If you follow these rules, I can assure you that often, with just one email, you have the power to make me look forward to meeting you. I understand that it may be difficult to write to a perfect stranger, above all if you are shy or if you have some disabilities or troubles like anxiety or social phobia, but we can also talk about that.
I’m quite selective but my selection is not about who offers me the most luxurious palace or the most expensive gift. I only follow my curiosity and choose dates where I feel like I won’t just be there for sex. Also, if you have animals, do not hesitate to write about them, or better, to send me some photos.
I don’t answer if your email is just “Hello + name + age + weight + height + I want to meet you on the…. + are you available” or if I realize that you haven’t read my entire site (the site, not the blog). If that’s ‘too long’ for you, then we’re not meant to meet: I don’t date many people and from experience I know that my meetings go 1,000 times better when the person is genuinely interested in me through my writings. There’s no need to tell me “Don’t worry, I’m nice, I’ve read the main part, I’d rather get to know you better when we meet” or “You can’t know a person through their writing, there’s no point wasting time with that, let’s meet and see“, I’m not talking about you, I’m talking about me. These are my feelings, my life experience, my emotions and my intimacy, so if you don’t want to make the effort, there are some lovely colleagues out there just waiting for you!
If you want to know a bit more about my state of mind you can read my blog (I pay more attention to people who have taken the time to read a few articles to get to know me better and prepare for our tête-à-tête)
If you think that you can skip the long email/my rules by putting forward your wealth, your important job/name or your luxury travels or by sending me photos of your luxurious villa or a bottle of champagne, please save us from this waste of time.
I don’t have a secretary so even if I enjoy talking with you by email, I’d prefer to reserve deeper/longer discussions for our date. I know that you want to know me better but I consider that I say a lot about myself on my website. You can wait for our meeting or we can begin a correspondence in the meantime. (you will find my conditions HERE)
One last thing: you understand that I can’t accept everybody, either because your email is not what I’m looking for or because I can’t be available when you are. I’m always sorry about that but there are a lot of wonderful companions that are just waiting for you!
- Your email has touched my little heart and we want to meet in order to pursue our relationship with a drink (or maybe more)?
Congratulations! Now we have to speak about the place, the date and other details. Once we are sure about all of these things, you can tell me what is the best way for you to make the deposit.
I’ll also give you my phone number. If you want to have a call with me to see certain details or to hear my voice, it’s possible but we have to schedule it by email. You have to know that my professional phone is almost always off. I only use it when I have a date so it can be off for several days or weeks.
The day of the date I’ll ask you to send me a message in the morning, before noon (with WhatsApp if you don’t have a French phone number or SMS) to confirm that you’re still available and you didn’t forget me. In the message you can write your exact address if you had not done that before in your emails (I let people chose what is the most comfortable for them). Without this message I will change my plan and I’ll plan on spending my day in a different way. Your deposit will be given to Grisélidis and if you want to see me another day you’ll have to make a new deposit.
If you have an impediment (work, family, etc.), could you keep me informed before our date? We will see if it’s possible to change my plans or if we have to reschedule our date. If you cancel our date less than 48 hours before, I’ll keep the deposit and give it to Grisélidis.
IMPORTANT: I have had a huge problem for a few months: sometimes my emails end up in your spam box (even if we are already corresponding). Please, always check this spam box if you’re waiting for my answer.
My email: louisetoulouse31@protonmail.com
It can take time between your email and my answer. I’m really sorry about that. I have other occupations and you have to know that I don’t have this email account on my smartphone. I only connect from my computer, when I have enough time to read your long emails (while listening to classical music) so I can be concentrated on understanding your needs, your desires and answer in an appropriate way.
Warning: if you have my phone number and you need to contact me, it’s better to contact me by email because as I said my phone can be off for several days or weeks.
If you want to learn more about me, there is my blog, of course, but also my Instagram account :