Nights, days, and long getaways

I like long meetings because we have time to connect intimately. Well, that’s my ideal date, because sometimes things don’t go according to plan! Whether it’s for a night or a weekend, some people really want to make me happy me by doing all sorts of activities.

Examples: 

For a night, we could go for a drink, then to a show, followed by dinner and then back to the hotel late at night, and in the morning at 9am it’s museum time! 

For a weekend, we can have activities/visits planned all day and lunch and dinner reservations in wonderful restaurants all over the city (or region).

I’m always really excited about these kinds of dates, BUT it leaves little time and energy for intimate connections. There may be several reasons behind these President-on-an-official-visit schedules, but I’ve noticed that the most common is either the fear that I’ll be bored and frustrated spending all morning/afternoon in bed or that due to my partner’s fear of intimate moments they will over plan activities in order to avoid feeling uncomfortable. 

In either case, the result is often that once it’s time to be in bed late at night after an incredibly enriching and full day, we’re exhausted or our fun has to be rushed between a midday dessert and a 3pm visit to the vineyards. As a result, we don’t really make the most of our time together, we sometimes flounder, we get a bit sloppy – in short, it’s not fulfilling for you or for me! And from experience, I know that if we have an overbooked schedule, I don’t even really enjoy the activity/restaurant because I always feel like I have to hurry.

So what do we do? First of all, we relax: although I love sharing experiences in good company, it doesn’t have to take up all of our time together. If you’ve got a huge list of activities and you don’t know what to choose, let’s discuss it together, see what’s the most fun and leave some afternoons and/or mornings free. We’ll have plenty of time on the big day to decide together what we want to do: stay in the bedroom, go for a walk, splash around in the pool, read, etc.

If you’re a bit scared of sex, you should know that even if we decide to spend a few hours in the bedroom, that doesn’t mean that sex/penetration will necessarily take place. Maybe it will lead to intercourse, maybe not, but what’s important is that this time leaves room for an intimate connection. We can cuddle, give eachother massages, have a bath together, read side by side, and so on. For me, it’s important to set aside slightly longer periods because it’s easier to relax and listen to each other if we have 3 hours ahead of us than if we only have 27 minutes, shower-and-dress included. 

Having said that, I’ll leave you to read the rest of the page!

Overnight dates

Overnight dates are really intimate moments that can be fantastic…or catastrophic. Spending the night with someone is not trivial for me, it’s a special date that allows us to discover each other more (and you’ll have the honor to see my just-woken-up face with my messy hair, trust me, it’s not nothing!)

I’ve never been a girl who likes making love all night long: when I’m tired, my senses are totally turned off so I do not enjoy the moment. I’m also a person who needs at least 7 hours of sleep each night to be full of joy and energy during the day. Have I ever broken up with a boyfriend because he liked to wake me up, in the middle of the night to make love? Totally! As you can see, I’m not joking with my sleep. That could be seen as a little “extreme”, and I agree. I have also broken up for other reasons, but waking me up in the middle of the night was really the “pom-pom sur la Garonnette” (it’s like “cherry on the cupcake” but in a toulousaine version). I cannot understand how it’s ok to force your partner while you know that the only one who will have pleasure is you (even when it’s in a paying relationship).

In summary, if you are dreaming of spending the night making love till dawn or if you want to be able to wake up your partner whenever you want, you’ll understand that I’m not the woman of your dreams, sorry!

I only do these types of dates with men who, like me, want to sleep a minimum and enjoy the moment from the beginning to the end. Some colleagues propose 12-hour nights but I prefer longer nights. We meet early in the evening and I come home late in the morning (but you can extend our date and invite me for a lunch, I won’t say no to a good meal!). In that way we have two great moments for talking, drinking, eating and, of course, making love!

The evening

Depending on my schedule and yours, I like to arrive around 7pm. We meet for a drink, have dinner together and go over the world again and again until we find it more agreeable, and then we spend some time under the sheets.

I am not a night owl so after midnight, I know that I start feeling tired. I’m no longer too receptive to intimate moments, preferring moments of caress and tenderness. I don’t want to stay awake past 1am so that I’m not tired the next day and can enjoy our sweet morning together

The morning

I don’t like when someone jumps on me as soon as the alarm clock goes off. My body is still sleepy, just like my mind. I would rather spend some time in your arms, drinking a coffee and speaking about our dreams or what we are going to do during the day if we have a 24h date or more. Then, I’ll have a shower to continue to wake up my body with sweetness and we can have a tender moment in bed. After that, we can finally enjoy a breakfast in bed. Or maybe we can decide to eat with other people in the restaurant of the hotel (I really like breakfast buffets !). Depending on the time we have after all of that, we can cuddle again, go for a walk or spend some time in the hotel spa or at the fitness room.

Only possible if we’ve already met:

Extended week-end (from Friday evening to Monday morning or equivalent): 3000 euros

Little week (4 nights): 4000 euros

A day with me :

6 hours : 900 euros
8 hours : 1100 euros

From lunch until midnight: 1500 euros

I can also join you everywhere in France for a night or more. It must be easy to reach (you know, not 3 trains, 4 bus rides and 7km by foot): Paris, Lyon, Bordeaux, Cannes, Monaco…

We can spend a night or a day together, it’s as you wish. If we start in the morning or at noon maybe I might have to arrive the day before to be fresh and rested at our date. If we finish late in the evening, I might have to stay the night and come back to Toulouse the day after. In these cases, you’ll have to pay my hotel room and others expenses (I promise I’ll not order caviar or Dom Pérignon at the room service!)

These prices are for my time with you. You have to add the train/plane ticket, the travel expenses (a hotel room if I have to arrive the day before our meeting or if I leave the day after for example)

Overnight: 1700 euros
24 hours: 2200 euros
Small week-end (from Friday evening to Sunday morning or equivalent) : 2500 euros

You enjoy travel and want to share these moments with a partner? That’s nice, because I am also a really good travel companion. Here are a few examples of destinations I’d love to visit in good company (you).

I love Italy. The city I know the most is Roma but we can also do a city trip in Milano, Florence or Venice, a hike in the mountains or a lazy weekend in Cinque-Terre. My ideal itinerary? I would say eat pasta (a lot of pasta), pizza (a lot too), cheese (please, feed me with Mozzarella or Burrata every day), drink good wine (and Prosecco and Lambrusco), take a walk arm in arm while we’re admiring architecture and ruins, wander in museums, have a picnic in a parc, grumble at all of these people with their selfie sticks, walk along the coast or in the countryside, grant us a stop on the beach to read a book and listening to the sound of the waves.

Another city I love is London. My ideal schedule? After brunch we could go and marvel at Harrods and then stay there for a cocktail, go shopping in Camdem Town (we can also do some shopping at Harrods but I’m try to keep good relations with my banker so it’ll be with your credit card), hang around in museums to escape the rain, take advantage of a few rays of sunshine to go for a walk in a park, try all the possible foods and then go and remake the world over a beer in a pub.

In short, I want to discover beautiful places with you, enjoy good food and a glass of wine, marvel at museums… As long as you don’t make me do a week of total idleness, I’m fine with anything (I can’t stand doing nothing).

I prefer not to meet people for more than 4-5 nights. I’m a pretty solitary person in general, I like to lose myself in my world of daydreams, reading, writing and spending time with my pets. Even in very good company (and even with my friends), I don’t like to be away from my bubble for too long, so for our stay to go as smoothly as possible it’s preferable that it’s not too long.

I need to be able to work well together for long and far escapades so if we don’t know each other and you’re looking for a companion to spend a week in a 5* hotel in the Seychelles, then no, sorry. However, I really, really want to go back and lying in the sun of the Seychelles!

Depending on the type of meeting you want, I may have to leave Toulouse the day before. If that’s the case, there will be additional costs (hotel, taxi, meals, etc.).

These prices are for my time with you. You have to add the train/plane ticket, the travel expenses (a hotel room if I have to arrive the day before our meeting or if I leave the day after for example)

Overnight (from 6-7pm to 10-11am) : 2000 euros
24 hours : 2500 euros

Small week-end (from Friday evening to Sunday morning or equivalent) : 3000 euros

Only possible if we’ve already met:

Extended week-end (from Friday evening to Monday morning or equivalent): 3500e

Little week (4 nights): 4000 euros